Little cruelties add up

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f Most people are cruel to other people in everyday life in a minor way although it may not feel minor to the person who's receiving the cruelty. Certain people bring out the worst in others by whinging and crying.So instead of thinking about what the staff do, maybe we should 3think about what we do when we are relating to other people. If you are too nice too kind however people will put upon you, sometimes you have to be firm or just walk away from the person Try not to verbally attack others even when they are acting stupidly. Their submissiveness maybe very tempting to a dominator but if we carry on like that society will get worse and worse. I have seen things which I regret having experienced. I have seen a very old person lifted and thrown back onto their pillow. I should probably do the same if I was working for a long time and I was tired. when you are alone person who is demented that nobody will believe what they say about you. it's the same in schools with teachers and children. but it's not so easy now for teachers to get away with anything. I remember going to visit relatives in hospital and theI remember going to visit relatives in hospital and we were all very frightened of the hospital staff from the doctors to the nurses. 60 years ago they didn't have toilets for the public in hospitals and it didn't matter how old your relative was you only got half an hour with them.

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