Hierarchies

The deputy manager seemed to play the mostmost powerful role. Then there were the nurses. the carers,the third the cleaners were last. Sothe nurse became a very powerful figure. Asfor the doctor the general practitioner they see far above anybody. I think all this had a bad effect on the carers and the residents. hierarchies of power are not productive of loving kindness

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